How To Manifest Amazing Relationships

Written by Jafree Ozwald

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"The more you depend on forces outside yourself,
the more you are dominated by them." ~Harold Sherman

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There are many things you can do to manifest an amazing relationship. Often the most empowering methods, are also the most challenging. One very vital aspect to manifesting an amazing relationship is keeping your focus on what you LIKE about the person, instead of what you DON’T like. Whatever you put your attention on expands and grows, so why not look for what is sweet rather than sour? Anytime you find something negative in someone, there is some part of you desperately at work trying to change them, which is also secretly judging them for not being what they “should” be. The Universe is always exactly the way it should be in every moment; realize this and you’ve just become more enlightened.

Something else to play that will increase your sense of inner peace within any relationship is to realize the world is your mirror. What this means is the relationships you create with others, are mirror reflections of what's inside you! If you are aware the mirror is always reflecting, and not judging yourself for what you perceive "out there", then you are guaranteed to have amazingly successful relationships.

Whenever you are feeling upset by a situation or what a person says, and you see something that you don’t like about another person, they are really REFLECTING that part YOU don’t like about YOU. What a revolting thing! You may see your FEAR of becoming that terrible thing, or even worse the fact that YOU ARE THAT! There is always a mirror to be seen, and is best for major awakening when your shields are up and your guns are triggered.

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"I don't know the key to success, but the key
to failure is trying to please everybody." ~ Bill Cosby

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Sometimes its rather tricky to see it's all YOUR STUFF especially if there’s denial, or a secret old hidden fear you don’t even know about behind your judgment of them. That’s why we there are LOTS of other people with us here today on the planet. You just can't avoid relationships with others, nor would you ever want to. Relationships bring those "doggie bags" forgotten in the back of the fridge out so you can have a fresh clean container! Those past life issues want to be recycled, and become fertilizer for new growth in your life. Once you get to know ALL your hidden ego parts, good and bad, you'll see exactly how much of your stuff there is to LET GO of and how good it feels to be free of it!

The Universe really is quite brilliant in many ways, one being how it teaches us the life lessons we’re here to learn. Intimate relationships are really our ULTIMATE teachers, especially the ones YOU let in sweetly and deeply. Without intimacy (revealing yourself) your soul will struggle to advance, learn and grow. Intimacy (into-you-me-see) can be uncomfortable, especially when you’re releasing attachment to your safe velvety rut of an ego-trip. Yet it is actually the most blissful experience of sharing one’s soul openly and freely with the other, resulting ultimately in freedom from your ego. Intimacy is like everything in life, containing both negative and positive aspect depending on how you really want to see it.

Who are you and how to find your ego? Imagine the Sun was the size of a baseball, and around that baseball was this large magical prism of reflective glass that displayed all sorts of dazzling images, beautiful colors, and even heavenly sounds onto the walls. When you turned the prism a certain way, those images changed, sometimes becoming these terrible evil frightening images. The light remained the same however, constantly radiating it’s brilliance in all directions. Your mind/ego is this prism, your soul is the eternal Sun inside it. Depending on the angle of the dangle, life can appear to be glorious or traumatic, and yet no matter how much you rotate that prism. The most important thing to remember is the Sun never stops shining.

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"If you want a place in the sun, you have
to put up with a few blisters." ~Abigail Van Buren
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Many of us have had moments, days, weeks, and possibly even years of dis-harmony in a certain relationship. This can only happen when you’re avoiding looking at the mirror. More than you’d like to think, you are in denial about what you see in yourself, and is being reflected back to you in the mirror. You’ll have only generous loving connections with everyone when your mirror is dust-free and you’re aware of your reflection. It’s always those sticky, heavy, judgmental energies between you and another, which shows you the dust you’re trying not to see.

If your relationship is already close and intimate and a mysterious dis-harmony shows up, retreat into yourself and focus on what you WANT to experience and go for it. You may notice the other person may back off or even try harder, causing you to pull in or retract. Like a duet of argumentative piano players, one starts pounding on the piano keys not being in synch with the other, perhaps trying to make the other sound or feel “better”, and their overall harmony becomes a discord. What’s needed here is a little self-approval and appreciation.

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"Life is like a great big grinding wheel. Whether it wears you down or
polishes you up depends on what you're made of." ~Unknown

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