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A tribute to
Gervas (Charles Robert) Clay
16 April 1907 - 18 April 2009
Gervas's engagement photograph, August 1939
Following the death of his adored wife Betty in April 2004, Gervas moved into Elliscombe House Nursing Home in the summer of 2005.
Towards the end of 2007, about six months after his well-attended 100th birthday party, he was diagnosed with mild "senile dementia".
He slept through that Thursday; he slept through Friday; he slept through most of Saturday, and was certified dead on Saturday afternoon about five o'clock, never having woken up.
His doctor gave the cause of death as "old age" - this is now permitted -
But WE know better !
Death by chocolate ! WHAT a way to go !
DEAD FLOWERS BY REQUEST
He often reminded me of this poem over his last few years. We complied; his coffin bore a bouquet of dead flowers.
Gervas was educated at Furzie Close (now Edinburgh House School, in New Milton), then at Lancing, followd by New College, Oxford, whre he was an accomplished track athlete, particularly a hurdler, and a leading light in the Achilles Club.
After a post-graduate year reading "Jurisprudence" specified by the Northern Rhodesia Government's Provincial Administration, Gervas went out to Northern Rhodesia in 1930, emplyed by HMOCS - His Majesty's Overseas Civil Service.
About every week, he wrote a letter home, that you can read >here< In 1933 he sailed back to England on leave, and then went back out by air - a very rare choice then. In 1936, he was due home-leave again, and his parents sailed out to the Cape for a holiday, and to sail back to England with him. It was on this voyage that the 29-year-old bachelor met his 19-year-old bride-to-be, Betty, and after their wedding on24th September, he took her back with him to "Darkest Africa", and thereafter she took over the letter-writing, that you can read >here<
Gervas was posted often by the Government's Provincial Administration, first in the North-Western Province, then to Barotseland, then again to the North-Western Province, before moving to "the line of rail" - Lusaka, Kitwe, Ndola, Broken Hill and Livingstone, before his final posting as Her Majesty's Resident Commissioner in Barotseland. It was here, in 1960, that Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth, the Queen Mother, stayed with him (and his wife Betty) for her four-day official visit.
He then retired from the Government's Provincial Administration, to became Director of the Rhodes-Livingstone Museum, now the National Museum of Zambia, on a three-year Contract, before retiring completely in 1964 and returning to England, where they settled near Taunton in Somerset.
His book, "Your friend, Lewanika" was published in 1965 by Chatto. This was a biography of the Paramount Chief of the Barotse, who placed his country under the protection of "The Great White Queen, Victoria".
No, I DON'T want to live to his age. For the last twenty-odd years, his stock answer to "Hello, Dad - how are you?" had been "Surviving."
A keen shot all his life, Gervas gave up shooting at the end of the season before his 87th birthday, He found it embarrasing when the younger guns came across to help him climb over fences...
From Lancing College School Report for Summer Term, 1926:-
Gervas aged 79, on his 50th Wedding Anniversary in 1986
For genealogists, various of our Family Trees are on the InterNet - have look on the LINKS page.
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Gervas's eldest son.