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Given on 15 January 2020 by Anthony Cassidy, a friend, at the Service of Thanksgiving for the life of Robert Baden-Powell, 3rd Baron Baden-Powell, who died early on Saturday the 28th December, 2019.  This tribute was given in two parts, as shown in the Order of Service. 

[Footnotes added here later, by another hand, as "explanatory text".  If you click on a Footnote number, you will be taken to that Footnote.  When you have read it, click on the Footnote number to be taken back to the main text at that point.]

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Read by Anthony Cassidy :-

I only got to know Robert during the past 20 years when he and Patience moved to Albury. Therefore, when he very rashly asked me to deliver his eulogy, I agreed, but on one condition – that we composed it together. I therefore ask you to accept that I have, in effect, been little more than his ghost-writer, and that today my role is pretty much one of being the narrator of his story – and a remarkable story it is.

On 15th October 1936, in a small mining town on the outskirts of Johannesburg, Robert Crause Baden-Powell was born, the eldest grandson of the great man himself, the First Chief Scout. Whilst Robert was downright dismissive of his own mother, and of his father,[1] circumstances enabled him to spend special time with both pairs of grandparents.[2] Particularly, for some months, when his mother, who had already lost one baby in childbirth, was preparing to deliver a second son, Michael. His sister, Wendy, was safely delivered 3 years later.

When with his adoring and adored grandparents, there was never a dull moment as all four of them positively enjoyed answering Robert’s endless stream of questions. His parents, on the other hand, were much more inclined to shout “Oh, Robert, do shut up”. He always felt that the exciting times spent with his grandparents was to prove hugely influential on the way he would come to live his life.

When 10 years old, Robert was despatched home to the UK to be educated; first at Dane Court, a disastrous Prep School that soon collapsed, then Edgeborough, which he loved, before going on to Bryanston. It was at Dane Court that he first applied to join the Scouts[3], but, and this you may find hard to believe, he was rejected - on the grounds that he proved incapable of lighting a fire. Instead, he joined the Sea Cadets.

Probably due to his lack of early grounding in the 3 Rs, Robert’s academic career was never distinguished, but he demonstrated that he had an excellent memory and a mind that was endlessly enquiring. The latter, he used to say, was in his genes.

His great grandfather, known within the family as the Reverend Professor[4], was the foremost mathematician of his day; the Savillian Professor of Mathematics at Oxford; and the inventor of the binary scale; and we all know the extraordinary story of his grandfather, the First Chief Scout. Interestingly, Robert did say of the great man, that, quite possibly, he became great because he had to over-achieve to match the high expectations of his mother and brilliant father.[5]

To my mind, that was an interesting observation, because my conviction is that if only Robert had been subjected to a more ordered family life, and a much more disciplined education – such as he might have received at Wellington or Marlborough,[6] followed by Oxbridge, then he too would have been capable of great things.

For instance, at Bryanston, a very liberal school, Robert’s grandmother had paid for him to have viola lessons rather than his preferred option – the piano; so Robert, true to form, taught himself. Furthermore, in later years, he also taught himself to play the organ – no mean feat, and he was often to be heard playing to a high standard on the organ in the chapel of the Mercers’ Company, the Livery Company of which he was a Liveryman and his grandfather had been Master.

During school holidays, Robert used to head west to join the Copeland family at Trelissick[7], their splendid home, now National Trust, overlooking the mouth of the Fal Estuary in Cornwall. Ronald and Ida Copeland[8] had started the Scouts and Guides in Staffordshire and, over time, they had become good friends of Robert’s grandfather. Robert liked to tell the story of how, at dinner, he was required to sit, freshly bathed, in his pyjamas and dressing gown amongst the grandees in their black ties and evening gowns. If and when silence prevailed for more than a moment, Ida Copeland would shout “Utter, child, utter”. A hard call for any youngster, but one evening Robert brought the habit to an abrupt end. When the cry next came, “Utter, child, utter”, Robert responded by telling a typically smutty prep school joke – quite unrepeatable here. It was a classic B-P moment. Unsurprisingly, he was despatched to early bed in the servants’ quarters, but thereafter the cry “utter, child, utter” passed into history.

All this may help us to recognise that Robert’s upbringing was not that of your ordinary young man – separated from his immediate family, and the grandparents he loved,[9] he emerged undisciplined, strong-willed, stubborn, impulsive and forever inquisitive - never settling to concentrate on any single subject.

Also, it helps to explain why he opted to do his National Service in the Royal Navy. Here, after a series of IQ tests, one of which was accidentally included twice, Able Seaman Baden-Powell was deemed too bright to cook and peel spuds. Instead, he was appointed Leading Radar Mechanic and posted to HMS Bulwark, which was experiencing severe problems with its radar systems – largely, it seems, because aircraft flying speeds had increased beyond the capabilities of the set. Whilst Robert thoroughly enjoyed being able to dash up to the bridge and ask the captain for a fly past of Gannets and Seahawks so that he could test his latest modification, he freely admitted that he never succeeded in getting the systems to work. His time in National Service included the Suez crisis, and HMS Bulwark was heavily involved transporting supplies between Portsmouth, Alexandria and Malta. For Robert, these were happy days.[10]

After National Service, Robert flitted opportunistically between one type of work and another until he found something he enjoyed doing. So it was that, after spells in car sales; joining the BBC as a studio manager; owning a number of off-licences;[11] and acting as a driving instructor; he recognised that he was a good salesman and that, on occasions, his name had a value.11[12]

And so it was that, when asked by a friend of his father to join his small firm in The City, Robert agreed and for the next 25 years much enjoyed the life and the people he met. When he joined Marshalls, the leading firm of money brokers in the City, he discovered that his natural talent lay in raising money from banks, Lloyd’s agents and other City institutions that were flush with cash – money that in the main was then channelled by him to become loans to local authorities all over the UK.[13] He also proved that he had a good eye for spotting shares that were undervalued on the Stock Market, and it was on the strength of this that he was invited to join the boards of a number of City institutions, amongst others, the Bolton Building Society and the City Share Investment Trust.

On his father’s death on 2nd December 1962, Robert succeeded to the titles,[14] and he became a regular attendee at the House of Lords. Perhaps unsurprisingly, his maiden speech concerned the imposition of sanctions on Rhodesia.[15] Over time, however, whilst enjoying the Lords as a jolly nice club and an intelligent talking shop where he mixed with many brilliant people, he found that attending the House and earning a living proved incompatible, and his attendance fell sharply because it had to.[16]

Robert enjoyed being a grandee, but freely admitted to feeling a bit of a fraud when institutions appointed him to their boards, often as President, simply because of his name, and he quickly ceased agreeing to such appointments.11 On the other hand, posterity will record his unfailing willingness to undertake much voluntary work for charities and associations involving his favourite concerns – young people and animals – too many to detail now, but one should record that he was Vice President of the Scouting Association for some 34 years.

In fact, it wasn’t until 1964, when Robert was 28, that he first became involved with the scout movement. At the time, he happened to be lodging with a retired policeman who was a Scout Leader. He ran a camp on an island and needed someone to help him to maintain the boats and be willing to stay overnight on the island with the scouts. Robert applied for the necessary Leader’s Warrant, but his application was spotted by the then Chief Scout, Sir “Chips” McLean, who immediately recognised the potential from having Lord Baden-Powell as one of his Commissioners.

Robert agreed, stating plainly that he would give the Scouts 25 years. As a Commissioner, he also became a Headquarter Speaker. This required him to speak all over the country and in Europe, keeping associations motivated and abreast of latest developments in the Scouts movement. Sensibly, he attended a public speaking course.

Just as well, as there was one year when he performed his oratorical duties 51 weekends out of 52. His greatest speaking challenge, totally self-imposed, of course, was to travel to Holland one weekend to address Scouting Nederland when they were launching a joint scouts/guides movement in Holland. He delivered it in Dutch!

Time for a hymn

Part 2

It was in 1964 that Robert met Patience - again. I say again, because they had met once before, in Rhodesia when both were 5 years old. On this latter occasion, Robert had been down staying with his mother near Farnham.

[17] As he came to leave, she asked him to return to Nottingham via London so that he could deliver a present to Patience from her mother. Robert duly delivered said present and promptly asked Patience out for supper in Soho. 2 -3 weeks later, when next down in London, they met again. Over supper, a truly smitten Robert, now hugely anxious to have Patience for himself, and himself alone, said “If I asked you to marry me, would you say Yes?”, and the answer was - “Yes”. They were married 2 months later.[18] There was no honeymoon; instead, Robert bought a Daimler Dart sports car!

Robert proved able to sell his off-licence in Nottingham, above which they had been living, and, for the next 3 years, they moved in with his grandmother in her Grace and Favour apartment in Hampton Court Palace.

Eventually, they did find a house they could afford, which was just over the hill from here in Ripley,[19] and over the next 25 years, both Robert and Patience became very active in local affairs and events. Robert, for example, served on the Parish Council for 9 years and both continued their respective and necessarily very separate active involvement in the Scouts and Guides.

It seems that they had to maintain something of a Chinese Wall between all matters concerning the Scouts and Guides. For all that, when Princess Margaret was to attend one of Patience’s events, Robert also had to attend. Why, because Princess Margaret always insisted on there being somewhere where she might have a smoke, and Robert was to be there - her fellow chain-smoker!

It was when they were in Ripley that Robert, rather against Patience’s wishes, decided to start breeding Quarter Horses. Quarter Horses are special. Robert first encountered them when he was invited to open a Canadian National Camp in Alberta. Together with the Chief Scout and The Governor General, he was to lead the parade – on horseback – Quarter Horseback. It’s a long story. Suffice to say, Robert’s impetuous and impulsive nature came to the very fore, and it was why Robert and Patience moved to a small farm outside Ripley, and his first Quarter Horses given a home. It was through caring for his Quarter Horses that Robert came to form Fieldguard, the company that came to provide, through its ups and downs, virtually all their income.

There isn’t time to detail the fortunes of Fieldguard, though it is a fascinating tale. I will only mention a couple of instances where Robert again and again demonstrated his constant curiosity and willingness to take a calculated risk. For instance, Robert was extremely concerned to develop a form of matting that gave maximum comfort to horses, especially elderly horses suffering from arthritis. It took several years of development, but such matting was developed. It cost 3 times as much as the competition, but its superiority was such that it soon became recognised and bought in quantity by the equine community. The competition’s product, on the other hand, used to stink after a while because it absorbed ammonia. Again, Robert, using his initiative, approached Elsan and had them develop a product for him that overcame the stink. He called it Green Gloop, and it was an instant commercial success.

On another occasion, his mare got her leg horribly entangled in some barbed wire fencing, so Robert determined to develop a form of fencing that could not possibly damage an animal. It was when in hospital with a heavily bandaged broken arm (Yes, kicked by a horse), that it dawned on him that fencing made of a material that was shaped like a bandage and weatherproof could be the answer. It was, and that is why, wherever you now go and there are horses, the fencing you see is almost certainly Fieldguard’s.

In 1999, Robert and Patience moved here to Albury, renting property and land from the Northumberland Estate.[20] Robert later claimed that this time was their happiest time. Fortuitously, their arrival in the village coincided with local efforts to raise some £80,000 to completely refurbish Albury church. The fund-raising committee had planned 8 separate events to pull in the cash, and it was Patience who declared “We shall buy tickets to them all”. It proved a splendid way for them to meet and befriend many kindred spirits living either in Albury or its surrounding villages.

Sadly, in 2010, shortly before Christmas, Patience died, having suffered with enormous bravery the deadly precision of the slings and arrows of Motor Neurone Disease. Robert had had some years to prepare for this loss, and he took it with characteristic courage.[21]

Afterwards, and over time, things changed. Patience had been very allergic to dog hairs, so dogs had been banned. On her death, however, Robert was able to revisit his love of sighthounds of all persuasions and soon made wonderful friends with many involved at Celia Cross, the Sighthound rescue centre. Indeed, I think it is fair to say that he came to regard Dannie, Willow, Bandit and Jack as his immediate family.

Also, Robert came to seek the company of his friends more; and he became active and positively acquisitive in the art world, making lots of new artistic friends; not least the artist who did the delightful illustrations for his cheeky little book about life with his Sighthounds. With a keen eye and huge enthusiasm, Robert bought sculpture, paintings and the occasional clock. I much enjoyed visiting galleries with him, and whilst we often admired the same exhibits, it is fair to say that some of his acquisitions left many of his friends a wee bit bemused. However, as was his wont, he knew what he liked and that was all that mattered.

Ladies and Gentlemen, on reflection, how are we to take leave of our noble lord? Well, without doubt, Robert was a one-off. Not one of us will have had another friend like him, nor will we. With a quick, sharp brain, he was often outrageously frank, and sometimes naughty with it. He was impulsive, and never dull. Always well-informed on current affairs, he was never less than provocative and stimulating. He bravely overcame the many trials and tribulations, both financial and medical, that fate determined he should face.

He was an enthusiast. He loved the ladies, his dogs, his horses, his cars, his clocks, and his art. Above all, he was a marvellous and generous friend. Yes, he was capable of being sharp-tongued, but, buried deep, there lurked a heart of gold.[22] I liked him a lot, always enjoyed his company, and feel sure that all of us, in our many different ways, will miss him very much.

Having said that, Robert firmly believed in reincarnation. Now there’s a thought. Meantime, Robert, RIP.

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[1] This says more about Robert than about his parents.  Robert’s mother Carine had trained as a nurse, and was working in a hospital in Salisbury, Southern Rhodesia, when Robert’s father came in as a patient, and she nursed him back to health.  She would have been the first to concede that she was not the brightest button in the box, but she was a kind and loving mother, who did her best for her children.

[2] Robert's B-P grandparents

Robert lived with his parents in Southern Rhodesia; his father's parents, the B-Ps, lived in Kenya.  Robert's father Peter was employed by the BSAP, and was not allowed to marry; Peter broke this rule, and kept secret both his marriage and the birth of Robert, secret even from Peter's parents.  When the B-P's daughter Betty's daughter was born in June 1937, when Robert was 8 months old, the B-Ps thought that she was their first grandchild.

Robert met those grandparents for the first time on 20th April, 1938, when they sailed in the SS Llangibby Castle from Mombasa in Kenya back to England, and the ship stopped at Beira in Mozambique; Peter, Carine and Robert took a break and met them there.

Robert was eighteen months old.  Robert's grandmother Olave wrote, "We met Peter again at Beira as in 1935. only this time with his new family. It was wonderful that Robin [her husband] had the opportunity to hold his grandson in his arms."

The B-P grandparents later returned to Kenya, and in February 1940, Peter, Carine and Robert (then 40 months old) flew to Lusaka, where the B-P's younger daughter Betty, her husband and their two children (Gill, 32 months, and Robin, 10 months)) joined them and they all flew to Kenya to be with the B-Ps for the B-P's joint birthday on 22nd February 1940.  Robert and his parents flew back to Southern Rhodesia - work called.  Robert's B-P grandfather died the following January.  So Robert's memories of that grandfather were minimal.

Following his grandfather's death, Robert's grandmother Olave left Kenya and sailed back to England (in convoy, the ships either side were torpedoed).  Robert was nearly 9 when he went to boarding school in England after the War.  As World Chief Guide, Olave was very busy, and often not in England, so Robert would not have seen her very often.

[3] Robert had earlier been a Cub in Southern Rhodesia.

[4] The "Reverend Professor" was the Rev. Prof. Baden Powell, Robert's {famous – notorious?) father's father's father, still known in the family by that term.

[5] The Rev. Prof., B-P's father, had died when the Chief Scout was only three.

[6] Or perhaps Charterhouse, the alma mater of his father and his grandfather.

[8] From B-P's diary, it seems they first met 2nd July 1927, and the Copelands stayed with the B-Ps occasionally thereafter. The Copelands looked after the B-P's dog Twm while the B-Ps went round the world in 1935

14-Mar-32           Mr Copeland brought W Joubert sculptor (v. deaf) to make a statuette of me.

25-Nov-37           . . . dined with Copelands [in London].

[9] History does not relate if, after the family came to England, Robert ever again saw his mother's South African grandparents.

His father's mother, Olave B-P, devoted the rest of her life to promoting Girl Guides and Girl Scouts, always travelling; and she never made any bones about "I don't do children", so Robert would not have seen a great deal of her, either.

[10] His grandmother Olave was scheduled to visit Egypt at about the time of the invasion !  Her plans were changed, and she travelled instead to Malta, then across the Sahara to Kenya.  While in Malta, she and Robert had an unexpected reunion.

[11] At the time of his father's death, Robert had a shop in Nottingham that he named "Whisky-a-GoGo".

[12] After his father died on the 9th December 1962, Robert succeeded to the title.  He disposed of his off-licence and moved to London.  Upon taking his seat in the House of Lords, he was told that a Peerage such as his would lead to him being invited to join the Boards of Companies, so that his prestigious name would appear on their letter-heads.  He was told that he could expect one such that would pay him £5,000 a year, plus two more worth £2,500 a year, roughly £200,000 total in today's money.

[13] These were very large sums of money, for just a few days, sometimes swapped between two different Local Authorites.  The deals were made by telephone, and "on trust" - no computers nor Internet in those days.

[14] Robert's grandmother Olave was very proud of her husband, and protective.  Her opinion of her son Peter was lower than it should have been, for though his father had set a bar that Peter could never hope to reach, he was a kind and loving man, and had it not been for the comparison, she should have been proud of him.  With that in mind, it is understandable that, when her husband died and Peter succeeded to the title, Olave tried to persuade him not to accept the title - "There can only ever be one Lord B-P".  However, at that time it just was not possible to pass on a title.

Similarly, and for the same reason, when Peter died and Robert succeeded, she told him not to take up the title.  Her opinion of Robert was perhaps as low as her opinion of Peter; maybe even lower.  Robert had done his National Service as a ranker, not as an officer; and he was running a BOTTLE STORE !  Definitely NOT what one wants for "Lord B-P" !  However, again, Robert had no choice.  The Rules have changed since, and nowadays such a rejection is possible.

But relations between Olave and Robert reached such a state that they were corresponding through their solicitors – initiated by Robert.

[15] Robert took his seat in the House of Lords on 29th October 1964 (Hansard Vol. 261),  his Maiden Speech was in the debate on "Youth and Social Responsibilities", and can be found here.

Hansard Volume 271 reports that on 07 December 1965 there was a debate on Rhodesia; that Robert voted on, but did not speak.

[16] Hansard also shows that Robert voted on seven other House of Lords debates, but did not speak :-

23 Mar 1965 Licensing (Scotland) Bill

13 Apr 1965 War Damage Bill

27 May 1965 Railway Closures Bill

24 Jun 1965 Trade Disputes Bill

30 Nov 1965 Abortion Bill

 7 Dec 1965 Rhodesia

24 Moy 1966 Tribunals and Inquiries Bill - the last occasion

On 14 June 1977, in the debate on the Sexual Offences (Amendment) Bill, Lord Clifford read out at Robert’s request a letter he had written.

[17] Robert's mother Carine and Patience's mother had been friends since about 1942 (or perhaps earlier), when Robert and Patience had attended the same Primary School.  Patience was now living in London, and on a visit to England her mother brought her to stay with Carine, at Corder, Dockenfield, and thereafter Patience would occasionally stay for the weekend. 

And Carine would say, "I wish you and Robert would meet - you would get on so well together." 

So Patience took a dislike to this young man whom she had never met.

Robert was also working in London, and used occasionally to go home to his parents for the weekend. And every time, his mother would say, "I wish you and Patience would meet - you would get on so well together."  So Robert took a dislike to this young woman whom he had never met.

So when eventually they did meet, each found that the other actually wasn't so awful ! 

[18] The wedding was in the Parish Church of St. Mary the Virgin, Frensham.  GU10 3EA.  Patience's family were staying nearby, at the Frensham Ponds Hotel.  And, unknowingly, some of Robert's relations - including his grandmother Olave, had booked lunch there.  Word got out, and Olave was invited to visit her future granddaughter-in-law in her suite.  She arrived and knocked on the door.  Patience was being "prepared" by her mother and bridesmaid.  Olave was invited in. Patience happened to be unclothed at that moment.  All was revealed.

[19] This was a "thin time" for Robert and Patience, and his grandmother Olave did her best to help out - at one stage they sent her all their household bills, which she then gladly paid.

[20] Robert and Patience had invested in the purchase of an office block in Hammersmith, which they had bought with borrowed money as an inv Unfortunately, the property mrket "fell over a cliff", they were wiped out, and had to sell their farm.

[21] At the Wake following Patience’s funeral, Robert provided champagne, which he had bought to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary in 2014.

[22] One thing not mentioned, that Robert said recently, was that his proudest achievement was in the run-up to the 2007 Centenary Jamboree; he felt that it was his influence that persuaded WOSM to introduce a “rule” that WOSM would subsidise poorer countries (by contributions from richer countries) so that every country could send Scouts to every World Jamboree.

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